Thank you notes strike the right chord

Posted on 18 January 2010 by Kerri

After the holidays, my nieces and nephews sent me handwritten thank yous for their Christmas gifts. I suspect their mothers strongly encouraged them, and I really appreciated the effort. The importance of sending a thank you note was drilled into our heads at a young age, and it’s good to see the tradition continue.

On a related note, a friend recently told me she is sorry to see how few letters are written these days. She fears history will be lost because people communicate through Tweets, texts and e-mails now instead of writing actual letters that can be saved for future generations.

I’m happy to report there are still some missives in the mail. One of my co-workers, editor Jeanne DePaul, has been writing a weekly letter to her parents in Tacoma for close to 15 years. The letters are never less than four typewritten pages and often include photos, clippings or other items of interest. This ritual takes place every Monday night to ensure a Thursday delivery, a highlight in her elderly parents’ week. (She gets a phone call if it’s late.) Always a letter writer, Jeanne said she enjoys the weekly task.

I love writing and receiving letters, too, and I’ve saved lots of them over the years. I’ll hang on to those thank you notes as well. It’ll be fun to show the kids what they wrote way back in 2010.

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2 Comments For This Post

  1. Emily Post Says:

    Thanks for reinforcing the importance of saying thank you for a gift. I can remember every time a bride and groom forgot to send a note. It makes me wonder if they even got the gift.

  2. Julie Smith Says:

    Kerri: My sister takes after me cause I have a high school friend that I exchange hand written notes & letters with to this day. We have been out of high school for 40 years. We also exchange postcards whenever we travel (even to Seattle) I must also confess that I have saved all those letters and post cards too. It is so-o-o fun to get that kind of mail in my mail box when I arrive home at night. We’ve wanted to resort to e-mail, and do once in a great while, but I insist if we do we’ll never go back to snail mail. Thanks to Jeannie for sharing your blog.

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