Can you please help a size 18 businesswoman find a flattering business suit (with skirt, not pants)? I did buy one recently, which I thought hid my bulky hips rather well. It is a black knit, with a long, loose-fitting jacket and calf-length, A-line skirt. But my husband says it makes me look like a frump, even though I wear it with black high heels. Is there any style of suit that will camouflage my shape but not look frumpy?
Why so obsessed with hiding your shape? Certainly, you don't need a too-tight suit that reveals every bump and roll. But your husband is right: The opposite - long and loose - just draws attention to your size.
A more flattering choice is a suit with a jacket that curves in slightly at the waist, and a straight or A-line skirt to the bottom of the knee. A suit like that will focus attention on your waist and legs, not your hips.
As a further distraction, team your suit with a collared blouse in a contrasting color. Bright white with a dark suit is especially effective. Wearing a striking piece of jewelry close to your face also draws the eye up and away from the hips.